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Guidance from Orthodox Therapist Lauren Hoffstater to Support Your Faith and Your Mental Health

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Beyond Shalom Bayis: What Orthodox Couples Really Need to Thrive

Shalom bayis—peace in the home—is a cherished Jewish value, but many Orthodox couples mistake quiet for true harmony. Behind closed doors, emotional distance, lack of communication, and unspoken fears can leave spouses feeling isolated. True shalom bayis means more than avoiding conflict; it means building closeness, respect, and joy together.

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When Your Husband Won’t Go to Therapy: What Orthodox Wives Can Do

I want things to get better between us. But every time I bring up counseling, he shuts me down.” If this sounds familiar, you’re not alone. Many Orthodox wives feel the pain and frustration of wanting closeness while their husbands resist therapy. But even if he won’t go, change is still possible—and it often starts with you.

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From Chuppah to Commitment: 5 Reasons to See a Jewish Therapist

When a couple stands beneath the chuppah, it’s one of the most beautiful moments in Jewish life—full of hope, joy, and sacred promises. But marriage is much more than that single moment. It requires ongoing care, attention, and a commitment to grow together, especially when life gets challenging.

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